Tuesday, September 28, 2010
Weathering this separation will make you feel like your relationship can hurried anything. Only and when a couple survives the test of time and distance, the relationship would become stronger. And if only for the fact that each one has not deprived of a chance to go for her/his career dream, scratch a travel, and fulfill an obligation.
Compared to other relationship, long distance love affair requires considerable and repeated investments of TRUST, RESPECT, HOPE, and FAITH. While it can prove costly, the returns are promising. As the oft-quoted RICHARD BACH puts it in his book " Illusions", "Don't be dismayed at goodbyes. A farewell is necessary before you meet again. And meeting again after moments or lifetimes, is CERTAIN for those who are friends."
Look at the brighter side... To begin with there are usually very few arguments. Petty fights are for the couples who have the luxury of having the rest of the night to makeup. You also learn to forgive his flaws and value his virtues. You can't help but remember the good times. And given less time with each other, you tend to trim the fat out from the relationship and work together on communication, future plans, and other important matters. As an added bonus, you learn how to text love letters in 100 characters.;-)
I know how you feel.
Empty, betrayed, and no happiness whatsoever.
You don't want to laugh, because you know it's not going to help,
but you don't want to cry, because it will just make you feel worse.
You feel like your heart is falling apart, but not only that,
but you know soon your life is going to feel like it's falling apart too.
You don't think it will ever end, and no matter what this person has done to you,
it feels impossible to stop loving them.
And everyone wonders why if they have hurt you so much, then why do you still love them. That's the confusing part,
you don't know why, you just do,
and the people who hurt you the most, and normally the ones you love the most.
And then, after a few weeks, you finally feel a sense of relief,
like you're getting happy again, but you know inside that you're just going into denial.
And after a few more weeks, you're back to where you were,
an empty soul and teary eyes.
You thought you got over them, but really, you just stopped showing it.
And you can't help but to show it again.
It leaves deep scars on your heart that are there forever.
And no one understands how you feel,
and how deep you are hurt, no matter who they are,
because it hasn't happened to them
And even if it has, every broken heart is different.
They don't know the true pain you feel and carry each and everyday now,
so you learn that basically you are alone with all this.
And the feeling starts to overwhelm you, and suddenly you just break down,
because you know you've had enough,
the tears just instantly start flowing,
and you're up to the point where you don't care who see's.
Because you've spent so many nights lying awake in bed,
and so many days being haunted by the scars and fear of rejection.
And in the midst of all these tears, you know that its not helping any,
and it's not going to bring them back, if you ever even had them in the first place.
After about a million tears have been cried,
you finally pull yourself back together and keep going.
Your throat starts to clench and your eyes burn with the tears you are trying to hold back. Everyone says, "It will be okay…”
But you know it won't.
And that’s the truth, it won’t.
And you look back on all of the hurt you had from this, and you realize that people are horrible. You're still hurt,
but you've learned to hide it so that everyone thinks you are okay.
So now every time you see this person, you know you still love them,
and you feel a slight tingle in your heart yearning for them to love you,
screaming out, but for some reason they don't hear it.
And then you sit back and wonder how one person could have caused all of this..
and you know right away that they were
meant to be there... to serve some
sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or
help figure out who you are or who you
want to become. You never know who
these people may be but when you look
eyes with them, you know that every
moment that you are with them, they
will affect your life in some profound
way. And sometimes things happen to
you at the time that may seem horrible,
painful and unfair, but in reflection
you realize that without overcoming
those obstacles you would have never
realized your potential, strength,
will power or heart.
Everything happens for a reason!
Nothing happens by chance or by means
of good luck. Illness, injury, love,
lost moments of true greatness and sheer
stupidity all occur to test the limits
of your soul. Without these small
tests, life would be like a smoothly
paved, straight, flat road to nowhere,
safe and comfortable but dull and
The people you meet affect your life.
The successes and downfalls that you
experience can create who you are, and
the bad experiences can be learned
from.... In fact, they are probably the
most poignant and important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you or
breaks your heart, forgive them because
they have helped you learn about trust
and the importance of being cautious
to whom you open your heart. If someone
loves you, love them back unconditionally
not only because they love you, but
also because they are teaching you to
love and open your heart and eyes to
MAKE EVERYDAY COUNT! Appreciate every moment and take from it everything
that you possibly can, for you may never
be able to experience it again. Talk to people who you have never talked to before, and actually listen. Let yourself fall in love, even if it doesn't seem right because you are too young or too far, just follow your heart. Surround yourself with those who make you smile, laugh, and make you happy.
Break free and set your sights high. Hold your head up because you have every right to. Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you. Create your own life then LET GO and LIVE IT!
Monday, September 27, 2010
I learned that GOD sends friends
when we need them the most and
Every Friend has a special purpose in our lives.
I learned that despite the distance between us,
a Real Friendship grows across the miles.
I learned that though we sometimes
expect someone to kick us down,
a True Friend helps us stand back up.
I learned that we should not wait to
express our appreciation for our friends--
if we do, it will be too late.
I learned that we should be open to a friend's view
as two people can look at the same thing and see something different.
I learned that we should not judge
our friends but respect their way of life even if we disagree with it.
I learned that we should not only take the time to talk to our friends,
but we should also listen and try to understand.
If we can't understand, we should accept.
I learned that our friends should
always take something good away with
them each time they cross our path.
I learned that friends sometimes hurt us unintentionally,
but we should forget and forgive.
I learned that friends change over time and
that such change should be welcomed as it's necessary for growth.
I learned that friends sometimes need time and space,
and we should be thoughtful and understanding of their needs.
I learned that you should treat a friend kindly today,
for the people we love the most are often taken away from us too soon.
I learned that friendship is a candle that lights our way,
and though it flickers against the winds of time,
distance, and change, its beauty endures
and shines forever in our hearts.
When a GIRL is quiet ...
millions of things are running in her mind.
When a GIRL is not arguing ...
she is thinking deeply.
When a GIRL looks at u with eyes full of questions ...
she is wondering how long you will be around.
When a GIRL answers ' I'm fine ' after a few seconds ...
she is not at all fine.
When a GIRL stares at you...
she is wondering why you are lying.
When a GIRL lays on your chest ..
she is wishing for you to be hers forever.
When a GIRL wants to see you everyday...
she wants to be pampered.
When a GIRL says ' I love you ' ..
she means it.
When a GIRL says ' I miss you ' ....
no one in this world can miss you more than that.
Life only comes around once make sure u spend it with the right person ....
Find a guy ..
who calls you beautiful instead of hot.
who calls you back when you hang up on him.
who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
Wait for the guy who .....
kisses your forehead.
Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats.
Who holds your hand in front of his friends.
Who is constantly reminding you
of how much he cares about you and how lucky he
is to have you.
Who turns to his friends and says, '
Sunday, September 26, 2010
to your bathroom mirror
where one could read it every day.
You may not realize it,
but it's 100% true.
1. There are at least two people in this world
that you would die for.
2.. At least 15 people in this world
love you in some way.
3. The only reason anyone would ever hate you
is because they want to
be just like you.
4. A smile from you can bring happiness to anyone,
even if they don't like you.
5. Every night, SOMEONE thinks about you
before they go to sleep.
6. You mean the world to someone.
7. You are special and unique.
8. Someone that you don't even know exists loves you.
9. When you make the biggest mistake ever,
something good comes from it.
10. When you think the world
has turned its back on you
take another look.
11. Always remember the compliments you received...
Forget about the rude remarks.
If you are a loving friend,
send this to everyone,
including the one that sent it to you.
If you get it back, then they really do love you.
And always remember...
when life hands you Lemons,
ask for Tequila and Salt and call me over!
Good friends are like stars..........
You don't always see them,
But you know they are always there.
"Whenever God Closes One Door He Always Opens Another, Even Though
Sometimes It's Hell in the Hallway"
I would rather have one rose and a kind word
from a friend while I'm here
than a whole truck load when I'm gone.
Happiness keeps You Sweet,
Trials keep You Strong,
Sorrows keep You Human,
Failures keeps You Humble,
Success keeps You Glowing,
God keeps You Going
Love is...being happy for the other person
When they are happy being sad for the other person
When they are sad being together in good times-and
Being together in bad times
Love is source of strength...
Love is...being honest with yourself at all times
Being honest with the other person at all times
Telling,listening,respecting the truth-and
Love is source of reality...
Love is...an understanding for each other
You feel as if you are a part of the other person
Accepting the other person just the way they are-and
Not trying to change them to be something else
Love is the source of unity...
Love is...the freedom to pursue your own desires
While sharing your experiences with the other person
The growth of one individual alongside of-and
Togther with the growth of another individual
Love is the source of success...
Love is...excitement of planning things together
The excitement of doing things together
Love is the source of future...
Love is...the fury of the storm the calm in the rainbow
Love is the source of passion...
Talking in a daily situation
Being patient with each others needs and desires
Love is the source of sharing...
Love is...knowing that the other person will always be with you
Regardless of what happens like,
When happens missing the other person
When they are away but remaining near in heart at all times.Love is the source of Life....................
to carry a sizable load under challenging conditions,
even when we're sure that we can't bear the weight of one more ounce of life.
we put too much passion on the biggest dreams and priorities in life,
that we fail to love the smallest pleasures from simple things.
We search so much for the right choices, for the right paths,
to walk through, for the right time and for the right reasons.
But life isn't about searching for the things that we can be found.
It is about letting the unexpected happen and finding things you never search for.
Life isn't about waiting for the storm to pass...
It is about learning to dance in the rain.
It is singing in the car even when you don't know all the words.
It is giving your heart to someone even if you're a little scared at first.
Life has full of reasons to enjoy, to suffer, to fight, to give up...
It is about taking risk and making life worth living.
Because every minute is a minute you can never get back.
We have to accept our past without regrets.
handle our present with confidence, prepare for the future without fear.
Keep the faith and drop the fear.
Don't believe your doubts and never doubt your beliefs.
Believe that everything happens for a reason.
Always know a good thing,
when you see it, don't let it slip away.
If you get a chance, take it.
Nobody said it would be easy, they just said it would be worth it.
Quality life doesn't mean having wealth, power, or super intelligence.
It is a matter of how much kindness and love we give to others,
and the joy we get out of it.
We experience pain to keep us stronger.
Through pains we become a fighter.
The more we cry, the more we are hurt, the stronger we become.
Don't pray to be sheltered from problems, but pray to be fearless in facing them.
Don't be afraid of pain, but ask for a heart that conquers it.
We used to think that life is a fairytale.
Full of magic, exciting....
But that was a long time ago.
Now we know that there's more to life than just happy ever after.
We learned that we get wiser each day and no fairy can lead us to happy ending.
We decide, we struggle and somehow we begin to understand
that we have the power to make each day better than yesterday.
People engage in relationships to pursue love, friendship and inspiration.
But one true reason why is that nobody wants our lives to pass unnoticed.
No matter how successful and accomplished a person maybe...
It wouldn't matter if we have no one to share our experiences with.
There are things in life that we can't hold on forever no matter how much
we fight for it.
Sometimes, destiny isn't always good.
Sometimes it becomes playful.
There are times when we meet someone we learned to love and we tend
to think that it is destiny that made our paths crossed.
But there are times that knowing that particular person is just part of
the game that the playful destiny create.
Then in the end we realized that the person we thought was destined for us,
wasn't really meant to stay, but only destined to make us feel loved and
leave us when we're already fallen.
Then we disappear in our own little world, closed our doors from the people
who cares for us because we are hurt, we blamed ourselves for being
so naive that we believed all those sweet promises that did not materialized.
We tend to think that there is no point going on living in this playful world
without that person who made you feel like you're the most precious gem alive.
All we think about is that all those people around us are useless.
We shouldn't let bitterness take away our strength and weaken our faith.
Never allow pain to dishearten us.
Rather, let ourselves grow with wisdom in bearing it.
God never give's us a burden heavier than we can carry,
no matter what.... HE wants us to be more happy than sad.
If birds sings after the rain why can't we?
No one has traveled the bridge of success without ever crossing the streets
God never promised us an easy journey in life, only safety on board.
Life is an undying cycle.
It is a battle of survival, If we quit... then we're a loser.
If we fall, stand up.
If we keep on complaining about our miseries of our lives, nothing will happen.
God doesn't throw stones that we can't catch.
Don't consume yourself with the questions "WHY?"
But ponder more on "WHERE?"
Because God is leading us to something beautiful with whatever it is
that is happening in our lives .
Once we get to WHERE God wants us to be, then we'll know WHY..
We have to be thankful that we don't have everything we desire.
If we do, what would there be to look forward for?
Be thankful for the difficult times..
It is during these times we grow.
Be thankful for our limitations,
because they gives us opportunities for improvements.
Be thankful for our mistakes,
they can teach us valuable lessons.
And be thankful for all the people who love us in our own special ways, for
without them, we are but one unknown person in this world
who lives for the sake of living.
Find a way to be thankful for our troubles and it will become our blessings.
Live with HIM and everything will turn out right.
Regret nothing and don't let those people who don't matter bring us down.
Life is beautiful if we know how to live it.